Why RHONY Star Erin Lichy Lets Her Husband Flirt With Other Women

Despite "Real Housewives of New York" star Erin Lichy's claims that she and her husband, Abraham Lichy, have a mutual agreement to flirt occasionally, the drama between Lichy and her Bravo co-star Brynn Whitfield proved that Lichy draws the line at Abraham flirting with her castmates. In a 2023 episode of "RHONY," the cast celebrated Erin and Abraham's tenth anniversary, but Whitfield's comments to Abraham quickly soured the party's mood. 

Whitfield joked to Abraham that because the couple didn't exchange vows at their first wedding ceremony, Erin and Abraham weren't technically married. She then suggested Abraham find her after he and Erin divorced. "She came in. She started some s***. She said rude things to my husband. She wore sunglasses the whole time. Then she walked out. Sometimes, she doesn't have tact, and it really pisses me off," Erin said in a confessional.

Erin's husband, on the other hand, tried to play off Whitfield's comments as a funny joke. The "RHONY" star was not having it, retorting to her husband, "I don't know why you're laughing. I'm, like, disgusted." Erin said that implying she and her husband would get divorced while celebrating their anniversary was wholly inappropriate, and she wasn't sure if she could stand being in the same room as Whitfield.