Questions You Should Be Asking Your Crush

This question is direct and will tell you so much about your crush's personal life, per Jones, as it will tell you something about what matters to your crush and who they most value in their life. Does your crush value experiences over material gifts or thoughtfulness and creativity? This question is a great indication of personal values and it's also very helpful if you ever move from crush to couple — you'll be like a gift-giving wizard who always chooses the perfect present.

If you've gotten to this stage of chatting up your crush, chances are things are moving in the right direction. And although a great conversation is never a guarantee that your crush likes you back, if they compliment you, ask thoughtful questions back, and seem to care about what you have to say, that crush just might be reciprocated, according to eHarmony. 

What you have to decide is, after learning more about him or her, do you want to pursue something more or keep it in the friend zone?